Safe Space

What is an Ally?

Allies support the gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, straight, and questioning communities. They pledge to help end discrimination and provide a safe space to each and every person in need of an ally.

Becoming an ally means one can say the following “I” statements…

  • I am an ally for and with gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people, and that I am gutsy and courageous.
  • I know that I’ll be making a difference in the lives of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender members of the campus community.
  • I am designated as a “safe person” for someone who is gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender to talk to. This means I am committed to provide support and to maintain confidentiality.
  • I am committed to people with a gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender roommate, friend, or family member who may wish to speak to someone.
  • I will work to confront homophobia and heterosexism by demonstrating my support of people in various ways. This may include speaking up when a homophobic joke is told, planning awareness activities, or just being there. Though I may be an ally, my actions mean little if I simultaneously put down other groups on the basis of their race, culture, gender, social status, or physical and mental abilities.